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  • Slavic Christian victims

    I receive DM’s from too many women in my community who think, feel, and act like victims.

    Yes, I’m calling this out for what it is.

    Too many women tolerate name-calling, hitting, raping, cheating, drug use, pornography addiction, and drinking by their spouses.

    Too many women have no idea of the value they possess and allow this behavior.

    Ladies, your spouse treats you like you’re worthless because you think you are.

    Your spouse hits you because you’ve let him do it once, believed him when he said that you deserved it, and he continues because he knows you’re not going to do anything about it. You won’t call the police, let alone get a restraining order. 

    Your spouse drinks because instead of walking away or forcing him to get professional help, you tolerate the behavior and cover up for it in public or with your children. You may even have joined him to make him feel better. 

    You both go to church and on days that he “doesn’t feel like it,” you don’t go either or you take the kids and forbid them to say that dad stayed at home because he didn’t want to come. 

    Nothing will change until you decide you’re sick and tired of living one more day this way.

    Nothing about this honors the Lord. When you’re ready to see changes and make changes, reach out to me, and I will help you live the life that God came to give you when he died on the cross for you. I will help you discover your identity and transform your mind from victim to a woman who knows her value.

    1 John 5:4-5 says, “For everyone born of God overcomes the world…Who is it that overcomes the world? Only the one who believes that Jesus is the Son of God.”

    You act like a victim instead of an overcomer because you don’t believe in the power that you have in Him.

    You’ll learn how to honor yourself and set boundaries when you do.

    You’ll learn how to see yourself and your spouse through the eyes of your Creator and Savior. You’ll recognize that you were never meant to tolerate these kinds of sins but were created to reign in Christ as His child. 

    You’ll learn to speak up for what you want in your relationship and stand up for what you don’t.

    The best part is that the change doesn’t have to end with you. I’d be happy to work with your spouse to help them heal their wounds.

    You’ll both model Christlike character to your children and see healing come that you never imagined was possible because you’ll each take your eyes off each other and focus instead on who He created you to be.

    Are you ready to live this way and trade your emotional rags for God’s riches? Are you ready to trade your misery for joy? 

    Reach out whenever you’re ready!